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Love in the Time of Contagion

Love in the Time of Contagion

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In this timely, insightful, and darkly funny investigation, the acclaimed author of Against Love asks: what does living in dystopic times do to our ability to love each other and the world?

COVID-19 has produced new taxonomies of love, intimacy, and vulnerability. Will its cultural afterlife be as lasting as that of HIV, which reshaped consciousness about sex and love even after AIDS itself had been beaten back by medical science? Will COVID end up making us more relationally conservative, as some think HIV did within gay culture? Will it send us fleeing into emotional silos or coupled cocoons, despite the fact that, pre-COVID, domestic coupledom had been steadily losing fans?

Just as COVID revealed our nation to itself, so did it hold a mirror up to our relationships. In Love in the Time of Contagion, Laura Kipnis weaves (often hilariously) her own (ambivalent) coupled lockdown experiences together with those of others and sets them against a larger backdrop: the politics of the virus, economic disparities, changing gender relations, and the ongoing institutional crack-ups prompted by #MeToo and Black Lives Matter, mapping their effects on the everyday routines and occasional solaces of love and sex.

Love Life

Love Life

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An essential set of tools and principles for healing from heartbreak, finding love, and loving life.

Finding love can be hard. Being single can feel even harder. In Love Life, world-renowned coach and New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey provides a practical roadmap with actionable dating advice for letting go of past relationships, overcoming the fear of getting left behind, and finding the love we want.

Sometimes it feels like life and love are working against us. Just finding someone we like can be a struggle. Even when we do, we often find they're not ready, or they want different things. Then there are the internal fears and anxieties that lead us to self-sabotage and get in the way of a healthy relationship--that make us indulge the wrong behavior in others, hold back from expressing our needs for fear of losing someone, or overinvest in people and lose ourselves in the process. Love Life sheds light on these common patterns and how to overcome them, by showing us how to adopt new standards, elegantly communicate them, and develop the deepest levels of confidence that underpin them. Like many of us, Hussey has gone through major life changes--including healing his own heartbreak--and he opens up about his experiences, vulnerabilities, and mistakes.

Love Life is about doing love better. More than a book about romantic relationships, Love Life shows us how to take control of each of the major relationships in our lives: our relationship with others, our relationship with ourselves, and our relationship with life itself.

Our love lives have the power to elevate or eradicate the adjacent joy in our lives. Love Life sets you on the path to finding the love of your life, while deepening your love for life.

Love Out Loud: Building a Relationship and Family from Scratch

Love Out Loud: Building a Relationship and Family from Scratch

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The Root's June Books by Black Authors We Can't Wait to Read
Rolling Out's Must-Read Books for June by Black Authors

LGBTQ+ influencers Terrell and Jarius open up about their joyful love story and family life--and the challenges they've encountered along the way--in this honest, powerful guidebook.

Terrell and Jarius Joseph--a picturesque home, adorable children, family businesses, and millions of fans online. Love Out Loud is Terrell and Jarius's guide to help couples of all kinds sustain their relationship and nurture their nontraditional family. With the Josephs's essential roadmap you'll learn how to:

  • Define your needs as individuals and as a couple to build the life of your dreams
  • Recognize growing pains before they hurt your marriage
  • Break tradition to discover your unique parenting style
  • Build a circle of support for your children
  • We all crave genuine love, belonging, and the freedom to be our true selves, no matter what our family unit looks like. Love Out Loud is the story of the Josephs' quest to redefine fatherhood. After enduring a devastating miscarriage followed by two premature births by surrogacy just five weeks apart, Terrell and Jarius realized that to have the family of their dreams, they needed to live and love by their own rules. Filled with empathetic advice and a healthy dose of real talk, you, too, can discover how to build a relationship and family your way and build the life of your dreams.

    Love Prescription

    Love Prescription

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    INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

    "This book feels so hopeful because it's direct, it's really honest, and it's so actionable." --Brene Brown

    From New York Times-bestselling authors Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, a simple yet powerful plan to transform your relationship in seven days

    What makes love last? Why does one couple stay together forever, while another falls apart? And most importantly, is there a scientific formula for love?

    Drs. John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman are the world's leading relationship scientists. For the past forty years, they have been studying love. They've gathered data on over three thousand couples, looking at everything from their body language to the way they converse to their stress hormone levels. Their goal: to identify the building blocks of love.

    The Love Prescription distills their life's work into a bite-size, seven-day action plan with easy, immediately actionable steps. There will be no grand gestures and no big, hard conversations. There's nothing to buy or do to prepare. Anyone can do this, from any starting point.

    The seven-day prescription will lead you through these exercises:

    Day 1: Make Contact
    Day 2: Ask a Big Question
    Day 3: Say Thank You
    Day 4: Give a Real Compliment
    Day 5: Ask for What You Need
    Day 6: Reach Out and Touch
    Day 7: Declare a Date Night

    There is a formula for a good relationship, and this book will show you how a few small changes can fundamentally transform your relationship for the better.

    Love Sense

    Love Sense

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    The bestselling author of Hold Me Tight presents a revolutionary new understanding of why and how we love, based on cutting-edge research.

    Every day, we hear of relationships failing and questions of whether humans are meant to be monogamous. Love Sense presents new scientific evidence that tells us that humans are meant to mate for life. Dr. Johnson explains that romantic love is an attachment bond, just like that between mother and child, and shows us how to develop our "love sense" -- our ability to develop long-lasting relationships.

    Love is not the least bit illogical or random, but actually an ordered and wise recipe for survival. Love Sense covers the three stages of a relationship and how to best weather them; the intelligence of emotions and the logic of love; the physical and psychological benefits of secure love; and much more. Based on groundbreaking research, Love Sense will change the way we think about love.

    Love Sex Again

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    Love Sex Again is an all-encompassing guide to women's sexual health from Dr. Lauren Streicher, a cutting-edge Gynecologist, and a regular on The Dr. Oz Show.

    Ladies, what if one of America's leading sexual specialists and Gynecologist told you that she knew your body better than you did? What if she told you that she could fix the problems that are making your sex life less than perfect? More than 100 million women in America have problems in the bedroom, but don't have the courage to ask their doctors for help. These problems don't come from relationship issues, or the stresses of work and family. These are real, physical issues that are getting in the way of a vibrant, joyful sex life. Instead of getting the help they need, so many women make a silent deal with themselves: without fanfare, without discussion, they quietly give up on pleasure, or drastically compromise their expectations where sex is concerned. Sometimes women make this deal with themselves early on in their 20s or 30s; for other women, it doesn't hit until their 40s, 50s or later. Most women lack the vocabulary to talk about these issues with their doctors, not to mention the pharmaceutical aids that are readily available to men. But no longer.

    Dr. Streicher will show women how to regain their libido, determine what their issues are, and learn to fix whatever is broken "down there." This much anticipated book will set women on a path to discovering (or rediscovering) deeply pleasurable, satisfying sex. She offers practical advice for real women of all ages--from childbearing to post-menopausal, and explains what a woman needs to know about her body, where she is in her life, and her relationships, and how it connects to a satisfying sex life.

    Love Sex and Relationship Dream Dictionary

    Love Sex and Relationship Dream Dictionary

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    Have you dreamed of a handsome stranger and felt the pangs of love (or lust)? Do you wake up panicked from being chased by a menacing intruder or from falling from a cliff into darkness? Do you wake up to dreams of sex with an ex, your boss, or a celebrity?

    Don't be ashamed or alarmed! These dreams are normal and highly symbolic. Learn to decode dream symbols through the steamed-up lenses of our relationships, sexuality, and our human imperative to love and be loved. This guide will show you how to interpret everything and everyone in your dreams as an aspect of yourself. After all, the best relationship advice you can receive is being revealed by your own brilliant dreaming mind. To that end, this bedside companion offers:

    - Interpretations and definitions for more than 1,000 common symbols, themes, and images from your dreams

    - Tools for interpreting dream themes, patterns, and emotions

    - Love, sex, and relationship advice to help support you in finding and/or keeping the partner of your dreams

    - Definitions organized by dream theme -- People and Animals, Time and Place, Physical Objects, Ideas and Whims, and Action and Scenarios

    Kelly Sullivan Walden is America's premiere dream expert and a trusted advisor to leaders, executives, celebrities, and countless other individuals. She will guide you on a journey into your subconscious mind where the answers reside to the questions you seek, so you can make real, transformational changes in your waking life. Will you fall in love or love the one you're with? Are you willing to release your blocks to love and fall in love with yourself? How do you inspire better dreams? How do you transform a nightmare into soul-healing therapy? You'll find answers to these questions and many more in this comprehensive dream reference.

    Love Shrinks: Memoir of a Marriage Counselor's Divorce

    Love Shrinks: Memoir of a Marriage Counselor's Divorce

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    For twenty years, Sharyn Wolf, a practicing psychotherapist and "relationship expert," has helped revitalize the marriages of countless couples. But while she was being interviewed on "Oprah" and "48 hours" to talk about her nationally bestselling books that instructed millions on how to flirt, find mates, and "stay lovers for life," she was going home every night to a dark secret: a totally failed marriage of her own to a good man she just couldn't leave.
    In "Love Shrinks," Sharyn tells the mindbending--and yet deeply relatable--story of her (third!) marriage. In anecdotes that range from poignant to horrifying to side-splittingly funny to heart-rending, she explains how it is possible for two good people to make each other totally miserable and yet still be unable to leave. In fifteen years of marriage, she and her husband had sex twice. Despite the fact that Sharyn was a national bestselling self-help author, her husband couldn't bring himself to read a single one of her books. Communication between them had failed so utterly that the simple domestic activity of buying a couch together escalated to disastrous proportions. Yet through it all, they stay together--even though neither one knows why. Sharyn ends each chapter with a touching story of why she could never bear to leave this man who made her so unhappy.
    Painted against the backdrop of her psycotherapy practice, real-life illustrative cases of her patients, and the wacky story of career trajectory, Sharyn turns her analytical eye on herself and her husband and deftly depicts a marriage on its long last legs. The result is this beautiful and sad tapestry of a hidden and omnipresent human condition. You will not be able to put her book down.
    Love Signs

    Love Signs

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    Sick of looking for love in all the wrong places? Let the stars play matchmaker and learn to use your zodiac sign--and everyone else's!--to find and woo your perfect match, in a romance destined by the stars themselves!

    Every star sign has its own allure, passions, and desires. With this fun and playful guide, you'll learn about them all--especially which one is the perfect match for you! You'll also learn the secrets of attracting all the astrological signs, including how to:

    -Find the best (and avoid the worst) star-sign matches
    -Act and dress to be irresistible to any sign
    -Predict your lover's likes and dislikes
    -Make your partner a better lover

    ...and much more!

    With in-depth quizzes and descriptions of the relationship characteristics, dating habits, and compatible matches of each sign, this entertaining guide will bring you a truly cosmic love life!

    Love Understood

    Love Understood

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    "Laura Mucha has found the proof that love actually is all around."--Richard Curtis, writer and director of Love, Actually and Notting Hill

    For Love Understood, Laura Mucha has interviewed hundreds of strangers, from the ages of 8 to 95 in more than 40 countries, asking them to share their most personal stories, feelings, and insights about love and relationships. These intimate and illuminating conversations raised important questions, such as:

    - How does your upbringing influence your relationships?
    - Does love at first sight exist? Should you "just know?"
    - What should you look for in a partner?
    - Is monogamy natural?
    - Why do people cheat?
    - How do you know when it's time to walk away?

    Drawing on psychology, philosophy, anthropology and statistics, Love Understood combines evidence, theory and everyday experience and is the perfect read for anyone who is curious about how we thing, feel and behave when it comes to love.

    Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It

    Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It

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    The bestselling self-published phenomenon expanded with new practices and insights--a profound story of personal transformation that teaches you how to heal yourself by learning to love yourself.

    I almost didn't publish Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It. Here I was, a CEO who'd fallen apart after his company failed, writing a book about how the simple practice of self-love saved him. I thought I'd be a laughingstock and my career would be finished. But I stepped through the fears and shared my truth with the world. The book went viral. Amazing people all over bought copies for friends and family. For some, this book saved their lives. For others, it was the first time they ever loved themselves.

    Many readers reached out and asked questions. This taught me that, to create lasting impact, I had to go deeper. So, seven years later, here it is. All the questions I received, resolved. My intention is that by the time you finish this new edition, a powerful guide for building self-esteem, not only will you be committed to loving yourself, you'll know exactly how to do it. And, most importantly, how to make it last.

    How do you turn one simple thought into a life-changing practice?

  • A Simple, Actionable Guide: Discover the four core practices--a mental loop, a seven-minute meditation, a mirror exercise, and one key question--that form the foundation of lasting change.
  • Positive Affirmations That Work: Learn why the simple phrase "I love myself," repeated with intention, has the power to rewire your brain and change the filter through which you see your life.
  • From Rock Bottom to Rebirth: Follow the author's raw and honest journey from a CEO shattered by failure to a man who saved himself by rediscovering his own worth.
  • Making Self-Healing Last: Go beyond the basics with the expanded "Manual" section, designed to answer reader questions and turn the practice into a sustainable, lifelong ritual.
  • Love, Ellen

    Love, Ellen

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    With a mother's love and hard-won wisdom, the mother of famed comedian Ellen DeGeneres tells how she came to accept her daughter's lesbianism and shares her experiences as the first non-gay spokesperson for the National Coming Out Project for the Human Rights Campaign. 16-page photo insert. Satellite TV tour.
    Loving Someone with Suicidal Thoughts: What Family, Friends, and Partners Can Say and Do

    Loving Someone with Suicidal Thoughts: What Family, Friends, and Partners Can Say and Do

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    For help in dealing with a suicidal crisis right now, please call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

    If you love someone who has suicidal thoughts, you may struggle with profound fear of saying or doing the wrong thing. You desperately want to help, but you're unsure of where to start. This book can guide you as you support your loved one--without sacrificing your own needs and well-being. You'll find the answers to some of your most urgent questions, including:

  • What are signs and clues of suicide risk? 
  • How do I talk with my loved one about their suicidal thoughts? 
  • When should I call the police?
  • What do I say and do after a suicide attempt?
  • What treatments for suicidality are available? 
  • How can I help the person I care about stay safe?
  • What can I do to help them feel better, too? 
  • What can I do to cope better? 
  • What does recovery look like after a suicidal crisis? 
  • Written by a psychotherapist and expert in suicidology, this compassionate guide offers essential communication techniques you can use to help your loved one, as well as strategies for navigating your own stress, worry, fear, and anxiety. Drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and mindful self-compassion, the tools in this book will help you recognize warning signs, improve communication, create a safety plan, know when to seek professional help, and support a loved one in crisis.

    Making Marriage Simple

    Making Marriage Simple

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    Change the relationship you have into the one you want.
    Welcome to the Relationship Revolution! "Making Marriage Simple "is the accessible, essential road map to building a strong marriage in the modern world. Bestselling authors Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt distill into ten essential truths what they've learned about how to create a successful and satisfying relationship--both from their decades of "R&D" in the marriage lab of their workshops, and from their own relationship journey. In each chapter, Harville and Helen introduce a simple truth--such as "a frustration is a wish in disguise," "incompatibility is grounds for marriage," or "conflict is growth trying to happen"--and then walk couples through easy yet effective exercises to help them apply each truth in real life, every day.
    Harville and Helen have spent their careers helping couples transform their marriages through research, workshops, and counseling. But marriage--even for marriage experts--is never easy, and a number of years ago they found themselves on the brink of divorce. Harville and Helen put themselves back through the exercises they'd coached so many other couples through, saving their marriage and helping them achieve a true partnership.
    This book is for all couples. It offers the practical tools needed to transform one's relationship into a rewarding and joyous marriage. Written with humor, compassion, and honesty, and illustrated throughout with engaging line drawings, "Making Marriage Simple "is a strategic blueprint for creating a stronger, more satisfying partnership in today's world.

    Mama Gena's Owner's and Operator's Guide To Men

    Mama Gena's Owner's and Operator's Guide To Men

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    "Diva of Desire" Regena Thomashauer (a.k.a. Mama Gena) is back with a saucy, provocative, absolutely essential guide to getting the relationship you want.

    Have you ever felt that finding a man, falling in love, and living a joyous, adventurous, fulfilling life with him is completely out of your control? Is it possible to find a man who will be a friend and an equal, but who will also gratify your desires? If you're already in a relationship, how can you get him to become the true man of your dreams?

    Never fear, Mama Gena is here with practical tools for a relationship that starts out good and only gets better. In Mama Gena's Owner's and Operator's Guide to Men, celebrated relationship expert Regena Thomashauer offers essential strategies for finding a man, getting him to help you make the life you want, having a great sex life, and dealing with resistance along the way. Mama trains you to be an expert man-trainer, so you can take the lead and get what you both want: a great relationship.

    Manual

    Manual

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    How many times have you and your friends asked one another these questions without ever coming up with any good answers? Your girlfriends just tell you what you want to hear. At the end of the day, the only person who can give you insight into man problems is--that's right--a man! But guys have hidden agendas. What guy would give up all his dating advantages by spilling the goods?

    Steve Santagati would. A self-confessed serial dater and Bad Boy, Steve is telling all for the benefit of womankind. Every guy is at least part Bad Boy, and in The Manual, this prime specimen reveals what every woman needs to know to counter Bad Boy tactics, both amateur and professional. Steve is never condescending or callous, but honest, perceptive, and street-smart. His guidance is straightforward and his insights are dead-on, giving women tools they can immediately put to work.

    Discover what you may not want to know but need to know about:

    -The Heart of the Bad Boy (i.e., the nature of the beast)

    -The Male Mind: how he sees you and how you can make this work to your advantage

    -Guys on the Hunt: the male modus operandi, from the grocery store to Home Depot

    -When Boy Meets Girl: how to handle dating, from flirting to "sext" messaging to learning his weaknesses

    -Mating: so you've got him . . . should you keep him?

    Why learn from a Bad Boy instead of, say, a psychologist? Because there's no replacement for "in the field" experience. You'll benefit from (and laugh at) stories of real things Steve has done in relationships with women as well as of women turning the tables on him when he least expected it. The book also includes a question-and-answer section, in which Steve explores some of the toughest dating issues.

    To understand Steve is to understand the Bad Boy, and that will take you a long way in understanding all men. Find out how much more fun dating can be when you get the upper hand on Bad Boys . . .

    for good.

    Marriage Be Hard

    Marriage Be Hard

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    NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - Discover the keys to upholding your vows while staying sane in this hilariously candid guide to relationships, from the husband-and-wife team of comedian Kevin Fredericks and influencer Melissa Fredericks

    FINALIST FOR THE NAACP IMAGE AWARD - "Kev and Melissa are not afraid to tell the truth!"--Tabitha Brown, New York Times bestselling author of Feeding the Soul

    Growing up, Kevin and Melissa Fredericks were taught endless rules around dating, sex, and marriage, but not a lot about what actually makes a relationship work. When they first got married, they felt alone--like every other couple had perfect chemistry while the two of them struggled. There were conversations that they didn't know they needed to have, fears that affected how they related to each other, and seasons of change that put their marriage to the test.

    Part of their story reads like a Christian fairytale: high school sweethearts, married in college, never sowed any wild oats, with two sons and a thriving marriage. But there's another side of their story: the night Melissa kicked Kevin out of her car after years of communication problems, the time early in their marriage when Kevin bordered on an emotional affair, the way they've used social media and podcasts to conduct a no-holds-barred conversation about forbidden topics like jealousy, divorce, and how to be Christian and sex positive. (Because, as Kevin writes, "Your hormones don't care about your religious beliefs. Your hormones want you to subscribe to OnlyFans.")

    In Marriage Be Hard, the authors provide a hilarious and fresh master class on what it takes to build and maintain a lasting relationship. Drawing on interviews with experts and nearly two decades of marriage, they argue that

    - Compatibility is overrated.
    - Communication is about way more than simply talking.
    - Seeing divorce as an option can actually help your marriage.
    - There's such a thing as healthy jealousy.

    Real marriage is not automatic. It ain't no Tesla on the open road. Sometimes it's a stick shift on a hill in the rain with no windshield wipers. But if you get comfortable visiting--and revisiting--the topics that matter, it can transform your bond with your partner and the life you're building together.

    Written for those tired of unrealistic relationship books--and for anyone wondering if they're the only ones breaking all the rules--Marriage Be Hard is a breath of fresh air and the manual you wish existed after you said "I do."

    Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love

    Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love

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    Couples can make love last, says psychotherapist and clinical social worker Marcia Naomi Berger. They just need to learn how. Her prescription is deceptively simple: have an interruption-free thirty-minute (or even shorter) meeting each week and follow an agenda that includes the kind of appreciation and planning for fun that foster intimacy and pave the way for collaborative conflict resolution. With this book, you'll learn how to effectively communicate and connect with your spouse each week, and for a lifetime, with step-by-step guidelines that walk you through the four parts of a marriage meeting: expressing appreciation, coordinating chores, planning for good times, and resolving problems. Inspiring real-life stories demonstrate how transformative these brief meetings can be. The communication tips and techniques Berger has gleaned from helping hundreds of couples will guide you toward a deeper, more lasting love.